As a full-time LGBTQ+ tour guide in New York City, I’m privileged to share the stories, history, and culture of the LGBTQ+ community every single day. To me, NYC is more than just “the greatest city in the world” – it’s also a living, breathing testament to decades of queer resilience, strength, and joy. The city offers endless opportunities to explore what makes the community so special, from historic sites that have witnessed groundbreaking movements to thriving queer spaces where culture and nightlife flourish.
Whether you’re a wide-eyed visitor excited to dive into NYC’s LGBTQ+ scene, or a local looking to experience something new, I’ve put together a list of ten of my favorite gay things to do in New York City. From iconic places to hidden gems, this guide covers the highlights that make New York a must-visit destination for queer travelers and allies alike.
- Take a Village Pride Tour with Christopher Street Tours
Greenwich Village, New York, NY, 10014
If you’re looking to experience LGBTQ+ history, culture, and community in NYC, Christopher Street Tours covers it all. Our Village Pride tour delves into the history of the last 75+ years, visiting iconic sites and key landmark where revolutions began, riots were sparked, and history was made. Sites include the historic Stonewall Inn, the Gay Liberation Monument, the NYC AIDS Memorial, the LGBT Community Center, and more. - Visit the Leslie-Lohman Museum of Art
26 Wooster St, New York, NY 10013
The Leslie-Lohman Museum is a treasure trove for queer art lovers. As the first museum dedicated to LGBTQ+ art, it features rotating exhibits that highlight everything from photography to paintings by queer artists. The museum is a haven for creatives and art enthusiasts, providing a space where LGBTQ+ stories and perspectives are front and center. - Sip a Coffee at the LGBT Community Center
208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011
The LGBT Community Center on West 13th Street is a hub for all things LGBTQ+. It’s a place where you can catch a panel discussion, participate in a workshop, or simply relax with a cup of coffee. The cafe, Coffee Project New York, located on the first floor, is queer-owned and offers a space to gather, reflect, and connect. - Browse an LGBTQ+ Bookshop
208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011
One of my favorite queer bookstores in NYC is the Bureau of General Services—Queer Division. Located conveniently on the second floor of the LGBT Center, the Bureau has a carefully curated selection of books, zines, and art. It also serves as a community gathering space, hosting book talks, speaker series, and other events. - Thrift at Housing Works
Various Locations
A large part of our tour is talking about AIDS activism, including the AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP) founded in 1987. Housing Works, founded by ACT UP activists, was created as a way to serve tens of thousands of people in NYC living with HIV and AIDS. The organization channels all proceeds from its stores directly into housing, healthcare, and advocacy. - Toast at the Stonewall Inn
53 Christopher St, New York, NY 10014
No queer journey to NYC is complete without a stop at the historic Stonewall Inn. Site of the 1969 Stonewall Riots, this event in LGBTQ+ history changed the course of LGBTQ+ history and activism as we know it. After a six-night riot from queer patrons against police, the Stonewall Inn now stands proudly as a symbol of strength, resistance, and Pride. - Enjoy a Drag Show at Pieces Bar
8 Christopher St, New York, NY 10014
Pieces Bar is my top recommendation for drag in NYC! Known for its intimate stage setting, with iconic queens like Brita Filter, Ruby Roo, Yuhua Hamasaki, and more, a night out at Pieces is a guaranteed good time. It’s a lively spot with affordable drinks and a welcoming vibe – perfect for a night out in the West Village. - Taste a Hamburger at Julius’ Bar
159 W 10th St, New York, NY 10014
Julius’ Bar, known as the oldest continuously operating gay bar in NYC, has been on the National Register of Historic Places since 2016 and continues to serve as a local watering hole for the LGBTQ+ community. It’s the site of the 1966 “Sip-In,” a protest that challenged discriminatory laws and paved the way for LGBTQ+ rights. The vibe is chill and friendly, and their hamburgers are legendary – “the best in NYC!” according to the owner. - Stroll Along Christopher Pier
Pier 45 and West 10th Street, New York, NY 10014
Christopher Street Pier has long been a gathering spot for the LGBTQ+ community. When Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera co-founded the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries (STAR) in 1970, they led public outreach efforts on the pier, providing safety and community for trans and gender-nonconforming youth living on the streets. Overlooking the Hudson River, this scenic pier is perfect for a sunset walk. - Treat Yourself to Big Gay Ice Cream
Various Locations
End your day with a tasty treat at Big Gay Ice Cream. With creative flavors and cheeky names like the “Salty Pimp,” this iconic dessert spot has been serving up fun, gay vibes since day one. Whether you’re in the mood for a classic cone or something more adventurous, Big Gay Ice Cream is the perfect way to top off your day.
From history and activism to art and culture, NYC offers an abundance of experiences for the LGBTQ+ community. Whether you’re drawn to exploring the city’s iconic queer landmarks, immersing yourself in its thriving arts scene, or enjoying vibrant nights out at some of the best drag shows and bars, there’s truly something for everyone. It’s what makes NYC so special, and a place I’m honored to call home.
I’d love to hear from you! What are some of your favorite queer experiences or local spots in NYC? Whether it’s a hidden gem or a well-known staple, drop your favorite recommendations in the comments!
